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6 Questions to Ask When Becoming an Escort
What kind of club would City Girls be if we didn't offer encouragement and guidance to our new friends just getting into the escort business' Granted, becoming an escort is not for everyone. But then, neither is starting a small business! Essentially, becoming an escort is becoming your own boss. Awesome! You can work when you want, take days off when you feel the need and determine how much money you make without being limited by a 9 to 5 job or a boss looking over your shoulder. However, there are noteworthy questions to ask yourself and weigh carefully before deciding if you fit the mold of being an escort:
1. Do I have what it takes to commit to becoming an escort?
Becoming an escort requires foresight. If you can envision how you want your new business to be then you are on the right track.
But if you are the kind of person who expects things to work perfectly right away and quits if they don't, then being an escort might not be the career choice for you. As with any new business, you are going to experience a learning curve in the beginning. As time goes by and you learn the ways of the business more and more, your new business as an escort will get easier. This is where your commitment comes into play! If you put your heart and soul into being an escort, you will be successful.
2. Can I handle the notion of being a paid companion to other men or women?
The primary essence of becoming an escort is being able to handle the obligation attached to being paid for your time.
Detaching from your emotions while working as an escort is crucial while simultaneously enjoying what you do. If you are able to achieve this psychological balance then you should be able to effectively handle your job as an escort.
3. As an escort, what will I tell family and friends?
A lot of escorts choose not to disclose their profession to family or friends. Your career as an escort can be a lucrative profession even opening doors to influential friends and new opportunities. But those in your personal life might not understand and resist acceptance to this alternative-type business. Working as an escort is not a mainstream job that people can readily grasp. If you choose to reveal your new profession, be prepared for the consequences.
4. What if family and friends don't accept my new career?
As an independent escort, you don’t necessarily have to be in business for 5 years (or more) to be high in demand. At City Girls, we know plenty Practicing discretion just may be your best bet. In doing so you will be shielding family and friends from the burden of trying to understand and grasp your new career choice and all that it entails, in turn protecting your relationships with them.
5. Am I emotionally stable enough to handle being an escort?
A professional escort has mastered separation of heart and mind when it comes to her work. She is able to distinguish between the physical and non physical aspects of her relationships, especially when a man seemingly falls in love with her because she is so captivating. She has defined boundaries, recognizing when to end a relationship because it has transgressed a healthy limit. Mental and emotional stability and maintaining a stellar physique all play into portraying the role of an elite and highly sought after escort.
6. As an escort, can I strike a balance between money and enjoyment?
Naturally, achieving financial independence is one of the main advantages of becoming an escort. It's easy to get caught up dining at fine restaurants and mingling with elite gentlemen who really know how to pamper a lady. If you can recognize and effectively balance the glamour and luxury of being an escort with the money you will make, you've got it made in the shade! At City Girls, we try to be as candid and realistic as possible in revealing the truth about becoming an escort. If you feel a sense of confi
Being an Escort
Living the Secret, Sexy Lifestyle
Think of the fun and excitement of getting paid lots of money to date successful, interesting people who love to spend time with you! Half the fun occurs behind the scenes preparing yourself to look beautiful. But it's not just about painting your nails, applying some makeup and wearing a sexy dress. Successful companions invest in themselves. They exercise regularly, eat healthy, visit spas to luxuriate their skin and well being, maintain a versatile wardrobe and stay abreast of current affairs.
Sensuality equals empowermentWhat woman is not on top of the world when she feels sexy' Sensuality is a state of mind and the Holy Grail behind every successful companion. Being an escort is about your persona and your looks working to your advantage in achieving income higher than any 9-5 job will give you. As a companion who pays attention to the details of her figure and beauty, be prepared for the admiration of other women. What sets you apart from them is that you will receive so many of the things that you want while getting paid at the same time!
Bask in the luxury of being pampered
There's a good chance that you will meet at least one client who seeks a girlfriend-like experience. Often, in this situation, the gentleman finds satisfaction in pampering you with nice things and taking you to nice places, sometimes even resulting in extended arrangements. Companionship can occur on many levels and even serve to fill a void of loneliness for your client. Your client might seek the pleasure of your company through ways that include traveling to meet at various destinations, sharing good times, intimate conversation and even friendship.
Be your own boss
Being able to set your own schedule carries an indescribable freedom. If you're not good at being boxed in by a 9-5 job then being an escort is the perfect alternative. As an escort, you will be able to set your own schedule on the days and times that work for you while spending time with clients whom you choose. Then, you will have the freedom of doing other things in your life such as going to college, building another business, traveling, spending time with family or just taking it easy.
Choose your type of man
If you decide to work for an agency, you will be able to establish boundaries before you meet with any client by letting the agency know the services that you will and will not provide. As a result, the clients with whom you meet will respect your limits, allowing you to relax and enjoy your time together.
Enjoy no strings attached
Being an escort is a fun and exciting job that pays you to meet interesting, respectful gentlemen without the hassle of becoming attached. Often, the encounter with your client is short and sweet and then you're on your way.
Make a lot of money
You've probably heard that there are some escorts who make more money than others. If you work for an agency, your rates are determined for you as opposed to establishing your own rates if your work independently. In either case, you will make good money in less time than working a regular job while having lots of fun in the process!
General Rules and Guidelines for Becoming an Escort
Safety is paramount both physically and emotionally
There are risks with which you should be familiar and implement regular practice to ensure your health and safety. There are many different ways to do this.
Money should remain untouched and unspoken
Most clients, especially if they're experienced, understand the protocol of how compensation for your services is arranged. It's called a donation. Within the first ten minutes of your meeting the donation is traditionally placed in an unsealed envelope somewhere visible in the hotel room, often in the bathroom or on the hallway table. If you get a sense within those first ten minutes that your client is not familiar with this procedure, it is okay to subtly remind him but in a way that doesn't actually mention money.
Cover your back
Aspire to make a friend upon whom you can rely to disclose your exact location and timeframe every instance that you meet a client. If you don't have such a friend or if you are an independent escort who works discreetly, stage a call to a 'friend' in front of your client just before your session begins. Make sure he hears you talking and can distinguish that you are divulging your location over the phone. This action is a safety feature that tells your client that he cannot hurt your or get violent because someone else knows where and when to find you. There is a section below called Safety & Guidance for full details on this topic.
Saying no is okay
Many escorts are uncomfortable when clients request services that they don't offer. It causes them to feel uneasy about saying no. However, if you are clear on what services you will not offer and know how to handle yourself in the event that your client confronts you about a particular service, you will be able to stand confident in your reply. It is quite possible that your client will get upset but that's no reason to waiver from your ethics. The bottom line is that you should enjoy the time you spend with a client and if something makes you uncomfortable, it's okay to say no.
Agency or Independent'
Pros of working as an independent escort:
a. You keep 100% of the money you earn. - this is the main benefit of working as an independent escort.
b. Choose your own clients - you alone determine your ideal client profile. Some of the criterion can include income, age or personality type.
c. Set your own rates. - deciding the value of your services is up to you. The idea is to establish a rate structure that will attract clients in a positive way, without scaring them off because your rates are either too low or too high.
d. Be your own boss - when working as an escort, setting your own schedule offers a lot more flexibility than if you had to get permission from a supervisor. You have the freedom to take days off or plan vacations without feeling pressured.
Cons of working as an independent escort:
a. You don't have the same protection as you do working for an agency when you work as an independent escort it is challenging to adequately protect yourself without having a team looking out for you.
b. Working as an independent escort can be isolating and potentially dangerous - if no one knows that you are escorting or where you are located when you are with a client, your safety is not ensured and your risk of getting hurt or into trouble is heightened.
c. You are endangering yourself if you don't screen clients - properly screening each and every client before you meet is critical to your safety. Regrettably, many independent escorts are far too relaxed about screening and some don't even screen at all. You risk finding yourself trapped in a hotel room with an angry client who has perceived that you have not adequately lived up to your services. Had you properly screened this client, you may never have booked time with him in the first place. Instead, your life could be in danger.
d. You are isolated with a total stranger - the reality is that you are spending intimate time with someone you've just met or don't know well. In the beginning of your escort career you might not yet have any repeat clients and feel compelled to relax your safety guidelines. As a result, you could compromise your ethics in the name of your job. But this does not change the fact that you still are alone with someone who you may not know at all.
e. Marketing yourself by yourself - this is your business and you are your product and that is what you have to market - yourself. Marketing is a riddle and can get expensive. If you desire a high end clientele then you have to market yourself accordingly. Often, marketing dollars are ill-spent with nothing gained in return which can get frustrating and costly. Marketing yourself requires research, trial and error.
Pros of working as an agency escort
A. You have a team looking out for you at all times - a professional from the agency knows where you are and the client whom you are with at all times while you are doing your job. Because you can rely on your team, anxiety is diminished.
B. Clients are screened before you meet them - you don't have to worry about screening clients yourself. Some clients take longer to screen than others. When the agency completes the screening process for you, your safety is ensured before you meet your date..
C. The agency handles all of your marketing - marketing is tricky so having a professional handle it for you at no additional cost is a huge benefit and saves tons of time, headaches and money. You will be poised to focus on your work instead of diluting your energy on how to find your next client.
D. Meet fellow escorts who can offer advice, support and friendship - when you work for an agency, you will have the added benefit of meeting allies in the form of seasoned escorts who have been working for a long time. As an escort, it's especially important to have a support system as otherwise the job can get isolating. Having friends or mentors is invaluable.
Cons of working as an agency escort
A. A portion of the money goes to the agency - most agencies collect the money you earn directly from a client and then pay you a commission which is normally 40% to 50%. However, rates vary so it really depends on the agency you work for.
B. Working on your days off - There may be times when a client requests a date with you on your only day off. Your flexibility in accommo-